I’m not really afraid to ask for anything, but I am usually not the one to speak up and ask a question. I don’t like being loud and I don’t like being at the center of attention. So I’m not afraid to ask, I just don’t want that attention on me. I’ll usually wait until after to ask my question. Maybe that is something I need to change about myself.. if I have a question, I should ask it. I shouldn’t be shy about it.
Category: Self Love Challenge
Self Love Challenge Day 14
I think my younger self would be proud of me today for getting a good job and keeping my shit together even though I know how lazy I can be. Seriously though, I love laying in my living room or my room and just watching a show or movies all day.. especially when I need to study 😂😂 I swear, I always get into that mood when I have a test coming up, smh.. I really need to stop 😂
Self Love Challenge Day 13
Well, I did take a selfie and I look crazy because I’m sick. But if I have to find one thing I love about it, it’s my dimples. Even though I’m not smiling, they still show through, which is something I love about this selfie.
Here’s a cute picture I found about dimples:
So I guess I have a role in life and it’s to smile.. alright I can do that!!! 🙂
Self Love Challenge Day 12
Some things that make me feel happy to be alive:
- Mirhad
- My family
- My best friends
- Mountains
- Blogging
- Coffee & Tea
- Traveling
- New experiences
- Soft blankets
- Fresh, clean bed sheets and covers
- Cooking a meal for the first time and it turning out amazing
- Water
- Crafting/DIY’s
- Fuzzy socks and fuzzy slippers
- Spring, Summer, and Fall lol
- Warm weather
Self Love Challenge Day 11
I would describe myself as shy, but kind. When you first meet me, I’ll 100% be shy, probably too shy to introduce myself correctly. But as time passes, you will find that I am a caring and funny (sometimes) person. I get along with everyone and as long as you respect me, I’ll respect you! 🙂
Self Love Challenge Day 10
3:25 PM
I can set better boundaries for myself in life by writing them down. I think when I establish those boundaries and if I went to go through with them, they need to be written down somewhere. Preferably on something I look at everyday.
Self Love Challenge Day 9
3:27 PM
Something in my life I need to get rid of is negativity and listening to gossip. Neither are good for anyone’s health in that matter, but why should I care about some stupid gossip? Not worth my time when I could be doing something more useful like learning or blogging for an instance. And the negativity is a hard one to get rid of, but I have been better at being more positive. Being negative about everything just ruins your mood and the mood of others around you. Be positive, be happy.
Self Love Challenge Day 8
12:49 PM
I need to slow down and take my time in just everyday activities. I feel like I’m always running out of time to do things and I am always rushed to get somewhere. I live for the days where I can just take my time doing my own thing without rushing. Also, I feel like I have so much to do that I can’t think straight sometimes. I want to wake up, take my time getting ready, do my morning routine, and not be worried about running out of time or being late to something. Especially when this past weekend I’ve been waking up pretty late and I hate it. My days are literally cut in half, today especially because I have so much homework to turn in and notes to catch up on. I’d love to do that thing where you “stop and smell the roses” hahaha. That would be great.
Self Love Challenge Day 7
2:46 PM
Oops, forgot to post day 7 from yesterday so I will just start from today! Something I love about my body is my dimples. As a kid, I was always confused as to why I had 2 holes in my cheeks lol but as I grew older I learned to love them. They’ve become one of my favorite things about myself, I mean they don’t do ANYTHING, but it’s a cool feature! Something I love about my personality is the fact that I can get along with pretty much anyone and that I care for people a lot. Yes, I give some people tough love, but it is because I truly care about them. I know I might come off as a bitch or mean, but I do it for a reason lol. But yeah, I can hangout with anyone and start a convo and just talk to them. Yeah I am shy, but after a convo or two I’m good!
Self Love Challenge Day 6
2:03 PM
Hmm, this is a tough one to think about. I honestly can’t think of anything right now.. nothing has really been on my mind for years that I have felt guilty about or something I need to forgive myself for.
I guess the one thing I can think of is this: my parents use to take us on vacation every summer if possible and my dad LOVED to take pictures. Pictures of us on our vacation doing everything, to me as a chubby little 8-16 year old, I HATED it. I would literally get mad at my dad for wanting to take so many pictures. Now that I am older, I find myself looking at our printed photos in the box we keep them in and I always wish there was more pictures. Since last year I stopped getting mad at him and I made sure to include myself and take selfies with him. That’s definitely another one of my goals for 2018 – take more photos with the people I love. Memories are nothing if you can’t remember them 20 years from now, but pictures are forever. So I guess this isn’t something I need to forgive myself for? It’s just something that I have always held inside and I feel bad for ever getting mad at my dad and complaining to him. I always remember times where he would take pictures and I would get mad and he would just walk away sad. Hurts my heart. He just wanted us to be happy and remember those moments. I love my dad and am very thankful for everything he has done for us ❤ Now it’s my turn to take over the picture taking 🙂
Meli 